So... how u define "Right" and "Wrong"?
Does RIGHT means those that most ppl are able to accept? Like a norm? Or its RIGHT if it feels right to you?
There's always hard decision to make every now and then... And the worst decision involves relationship... involves people... involves emotions...
Just got back from my dinner and i heard some news on the college official stuff... Merit is like money in college... and everyone is fighting for it to secure their stay in college... As an ex-MTM member... I personally think tat the conflict needs tolerance n understanding from every party...
For a scenario example, the meeting starts at 9pm, and the meeting will be given merit of 2 points... Conflict arise when there are students came after the meeting dismissed... Frankly, wat i practiced was... i still give merits to my frens, coursemates... since i got extra in hand... Now... question came... am i in the RIGHT or WRONG?
Some say RIGHT. Wat i did just saved a few ppl from expelling out of k17. I gained a few frens. Some say WRONG, especially my boss, or other fellow students tat arent my coursemate. Wat i did was unfair to those who attended on time. My liability is questionable. And its my responsibility to make sure the merit only goes to those tat contribute to the college.
What if i dont give the merits... I lose coursemates frens, but gained the respect and credibility from fellow MTM and defended my responsibility... So... which is RIGHT and WRONG?
This small matter will reflect how u handle the same tough decision in larger scale. What if this is your career, u are the manager... Your best fren is ur colleague but a slacker... He claims more expenditure than he should... What wil u do? Its a similar people and business question...
Both parties need to be understanding of each person's different status and responsibility... Of course allow exception if u are at the top... Network n people is always the main criteria for a person's success... even as a leader... If u are too stern on every decision, losing frens is like losing ur legs... u cant go anywhere without ur legs...
So... What's RIGHT and what's WRONG?
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*102 - A New Academic Year Of 09/10
2007 - Got my 1st step into UPM... Being bullied as a freshie...
Of course the orientation was a fun one...
2008 - As a Pembantu University (PU)... Facilitating juniors orientation... Miss those good old moments...
And,
2009 - I'm laughing in the car staring at those stupid looking PU and the Freshies... LoL...
Im mean... XD
Of course the orientation was a fun one...2008 - As a Pembantu University (PU)... Facilitating juniors orientation... Miss those good old moments...
And,2009 - I'm laughing in the car staring at those stupid looking PU and the Freshies... LoL...
Im mean... XD
*32 - Last word for MTM
"Well, as I was saying earlier (grrrrrr...), its so surreal that my tenure as a MTM is ending very soon… Its sort of strange to realise that I won’t be called down for meetings and events frequently anymore. Orientation Week and Pembantu Universiti doesn’t seem like a year ago. The day I became Bendahari of MTM doesn’t seem like a year ago (although it really was one year ago)." (Vivian Lee, 2009)
Quite a few times u tried to encourage my participation in all sorts of activities and meetings, i understand that. Yes, our tenure of MTM is going to end soon. Recent meetings and events will be our very last time. Im also aware that i didnt show much commitment in those meetings and events.
The fact is, Im tired. I understand what u said on result isnt everything. But still i'll prioritize my result rather than activities. And of course, above results there will be a lot of other things. I prefer to go home, even staying at college while spend my weekends with family, wife and friends... Do the things i like to do (including sleeping :P) and be happy... Not to say i dont like activities and organising events but just i dont feel like spending so much time till i got no air for my personal life ;)
Im sure next sem i'll be more relax and relief. Things will be slow moving a bit rather rushing to comply the "working culture" of the malay officers. Frankly, i just cant understand and cant accept the fact that they can spend a whole night doing one thing that can be done in one hour or two... For me, i'll opt for the most effective and efficient way and finish it fast. Yes, it will improve each and every members relationship by sticking together to complete a task with all those chit chating by staying awake, but i choose to rest myself. I'll certainly choose to finish it in a few hours and go back to sleep... and therefore u wont be seeing me staying awake whole night to "accompany" everyone. Its a different way of doing work. Nothing personal.
Time flies... cannot deny that every event in MTM does leave a footprint in my life... I'll cherish the moment that we all worked together... And hopefully our friendship will be as solid as diamond even after retiring from MTM, not just a "superficial-official-bro-and-sis" relationship...
Quite a few times u tried to encourage my participation in all sorts of activities and meetings, i understand that. Yes, our tenure of MTM is going to end soon. Recent meetings and events will be our very last time. Im also aware that i didnt show much commitment in those meetings and events.
The fact is, Im tired. I understand what u said on result isnt everything. But still i'll prioritize my result rather than activities. And of course, above results there will be a lot of other things. I prefer to go home, even staying at college while spend my weekends with family, wife and friends... Do the things i like to do (including sleeping :P) and be happy... Not to say i dont like activities and organising events but just i dont feel like spending so much time till i got no air for my personal life ;)
Im sure next sem i'll be more relax and relief. Things will be slow moving a bit rather rushing to comply the "working culture" of the malay officers. Frankly, i just cant understand and cant accept the fact that they can spend a whole night doing one thing that can be done in one hour or two... For me, i'll opt for the most effective and efficient way and finish it fast. Yes, it will improve each and every members relationship by sticking together to complete a task with all those chit chating by staying awake, but i choose to rest myself. I'll certainly choose to finish it in a few hours and go back to sleep... and therefore u wont be seeing me staying awake whole night to "accompany" everyone. Its a different way of doing work. Nothing personal.
Time flies... cannot deny that every event in MTM does leave a footprint in my life... I'll cherish the moment that we all worked together... And hopefully our friendship will be as solid as diamond even after retiring from MTM, not just a "superficial-official-bro-and-sis" relationship...
*19 - Recent update of the long lost me
Had my most enjoyable NTY penang trip (or Penang-BM trip as wat michelle call it) ever... 4th to 9th of June... went to a few new undiscovered part of penang... hehe... that is Ben's house, then Kee's house n lastly Michelle's house... received a 5-star hospitality that the Gurney Hotel cant even come close :)
some reviews on the New Proton SAGA BLM... drove on Tambun night travelling overseas*... surprisingly comfortable and spacious interior... a lot improvement on the noise level compared to the old saga... everything seems so nice until u step on the rev pedal :/ the new saga body seems heavier than the old saga, wif the same capacity engine, 1300cc it's hard to pull the car against it's inersia... even if u rev until 4k rpm... (or mayb it only happens in michelle's car, since she is inside... so u know la... higher mass will result in higher inersia :P) if u having a budget of 30k... i'll simply recommend u get a new saga rather than a kancil or kelisa... u wont regret !!
* Over the strait of malacca... which is under the penang bridge :P
back from the so called kem "keusahawanan" at malacca (the MOST relaxed camp i ever participate in my lifetime)... it was suppose to be a MTM leadership type of camp... because the policy of BHEP that restrict students from organising kolej camps outside of UPM, my miss president, kak Intan Suraya gave the camp a more glamour name... entrepreneur camp =.=... dun play play ar~
1st of all... we went to malacca with the most luxurious bus in UPM. Why i said tat? See for urself... it even hav 2 drawings hang at the rear of the bus... wat a great enhancement to the ambience =.=
My everyday food there was RED vegetables -_-|||... the best part of RED vege is it has toxin-releasing properties... or in mandarin we call it "pai2 du2"... thus toilet visiting is an essential part of our camps...
The best food i had in Hotel Lisbon is my favourite Peppermint chocolate-chip ice cream! Yummy~
i didnt expect they give everyone of us a bed... which means 2 person in a room at Hotel Lisbon... n SEAVIEW !!! God damn~ where all these money comes from... they spent rm13k u know...
Night view of Lisbon Hotel, Malacca
Seaside of Hotel Lisbon... Great sunset view
That's a great family of MTM i'll say... which all our Bris (Bro and Sis) contribute to the "family bond"... works together, plays together, without the barrier of race, religion and custom... this is the 1st time i see Malaysia which i dont even feel it in my biomedic class... Unfortunately, there is always someone that doesnt fit into the elites of MTM malays... the biomedic-you-know-who is still showing his ignorance and doesnt contribute to every single aspect during the camp even he is the Top6... to be a leader, please lead by example... how will u expect the others to obey to you next time?
The office of Proposal Producing Unit... lol
Proposal presentation... tat's Yusri up on stage!!!
im kinda confused actually... is the kem keusahawanan is a camp or a vacation? coz we given a great time visiting shopping complexes n of course, historical monuments (the last time i visit should be during primary, who will go to tat kind of place after entering secondary ??)
A group tour from tadika xxx (cant remember) were well entertained by a local begging =.= singer... u should be there... the feeling is so warm with sing-a-long and all the children's laughter...
Fully rusted staircase handle n the rotten wood fencing =.= A good "sign" to remind u that u r at the historical fifteen century ground...
A great city view from the fort... No wonder the portugis can spot enemy ships from here... saw the big tiang there? is the new "transportation" tat lift u up in the air for a even more thorough view of malacca...
Wei... look at the next pic... doesnt it looks like i'm visiting in portugal? Coz a potugis is asked to help the tourist from Malaysia to take photos -_-|||
I wonder y these Malaysian girls are asking a Mat Salleh tourist to help them? who should be the tourist tat deserve a warm welcome?
we even visited the muzuem of istana kesultanan melaka... with lots of statue n stories (which i hate it alot... history!!!!) me, siang and weng had a very interesting finding... Those guy in melaka muz be really respect every character... look at the picture carefully... dont miss out any detail~
Yes!!! They even wear BRA!!! i bet they get bra sponsorship on tat...
Haih~ with all the happy memories above... here comes a bad news... as in chinese proverb: le4 ji2 sheng1 bei1... i lost my few months old rm700... w580i which worth rm1050 for a new one in the market... WTF... someone actually came into my room to pay a visit n took it as a souvenir... wanted to curse tat guy but after settling down... aih... hope he enjoys the phone la... =.= wat to do~
At near 5am now... it is way pass my bedtime... with germany and croatia both wins wif 1-0 score... mourning for my lost w580i... and feeling remorse for not really appreciate my wife's effort trying to cheer me up juz now... sorry~
some reviews on the New Proton SAGA BLM... drove on Tambun night travelling overseas*... surprisingly comfortable and spacious interior... a lot improvement on the noise level compared to the old saga... everything seems so nice until u step on the rev pedal :/ the new saga body seems heavier than the old saga, wif the same capacity engine, 1300cc it's hard to pull the car against it's inersia... even if u rev until 4k rpm... (or mayb it only happens in michelle's car, since she is inside... so u know la... higher mass will result in higher inersia :P) if u having a budget of 30k... i'll simply recommend u get a new saga rather than a kancil or kelisa... u wont regret !!* Over the strait of malacca... which is under the penang bridge :P
back from the so called kem "keusahawanan" at malacca (the MOST relaxed camp i ever participate in my lifetime)... it was suppose to be a MTM leadership type of camp... because the policy of BHEP that restrict students from organising kolej camps outside of UPM, my miss president, kak Intan Suraya gave the camp a more glamour name... entrepreneur camp =.=... dun play play ar~1st of all... we went to malacca with the most luxurious bus in UPM. Why i said tat? See for urself... it even hav 2 drawings hang at the rear of the bus... wat a great enhancement to the ambience =.=
My everyday food there was RED vegetables -_-|||... the best part of RED vege is it has toxin-releasing properties... or in mandarin we call it "pai2 du2"... thus toilet visiting is an essential part of our camps...
The best food i had in Hotel Lisbon is my favourite Peppermint chocolate-chip ice cream! Yummy~i didnt expect they give everyone of us a bed... which means 2 person in a room at Hotel Lisbon... n SEAVIEW !!! God damn~ where all these money comes from... they spent rm13k u know...
Night view of Lisbon Hotel, Malacca
Seaside of Hotel Lisbon... Great sunset viewThat's a great family of MTM i'll say... which all our Bris (Bro and Sis) contribute to the "family bond"... works together, plays together, without the barrier of race, religion and custom... this is the 1st time i see Malaysia which i dont even feel it in my biomedic class... Unfortunately, there is always someone that doesnt fit into the elites of MTM malays... the biomedic-you-know-who is still showing his ignorance and doesnt contribute to every single aspect during the camp even he is the Top6... to be a leader, please lead by example... how will u expect the others to obey to you next time?
The office of Proposal Producing Unit... lol
Proposal presentation... tat's Yusri up on stage!!!im kinda confused actually... is the kem keusahawanan is a camp or a vacation? coz we given a great time visiting shopping complexes n of course, historical monuments (the last time i visit should be during primary, who will go to tat kind of place after entering secondary ??)
A group tour from tadika xxx (cant remember) were well entertained by a local begging =.= singer... u should be there... the feeling is so warm with sing-a-long and all the children's laughter...Fully rusted staircase handle n the rotten wood fencing =.= A good "sign" to remind u that u r at the historical fifteen century ground...
A great city view from the fort... No wonder the portugis can spot enemy ships from here... saw the big tiang there? is the new "transportation" tat lift u up in the air for a even more thorough view of malacca...Wei... look at the next pic... doesnt it looks like i'm visiting in portugal? Coz a potugis is asked to help the tourist from Malaysia to take photos -_-|||
I wonder y these Malaysian girls are asking a Mat Salleh tourist to help them? who should be the tourist tat deserve a warm welcome?we even visited the muzuem of istana kesultanan melaka... with lots of statue n stories (which i hate it alot... history!!!!) me, siang and weng had a very interesting finding... Those guy in melaka muz be really respect every character... look at the picture carefully... dont miss out any detail~
Yes!!! They even wear BRA!!! i bet they get bra sponsorship on tat...Haih~ with all the happy memories above... here comes a bad news... as in chinese proverb: le4 ji2 sheng1 bei1... i lost my few months old rm700... w580i which worth rm1050 for a new one in the market... WTF... someone actually came into my room to pay a visit n took it as a souvenir... wanted to curse tat guy but after settling down... aih... hope he enjoys the phone la... =.= wat to do~
At near 5am now... it is way pass my bedtime... with germany and croatia both wins wif 1-0 score... mourning for my lost w580i... and feeling remorse for not really appreciate my wife's effort trying to cheer me up juz now... sorry~
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