*155 - Should Just Be Yourself Or... ?

Everyone had been saying "Be Yourself"... Its true in a way but did u ever thought that changing yourself might be a better option?

You wanna be yourself... act like the true you... but MOST people cant accept it... OR... You thought you arent comfortable with something, but MOST of the successful ppl are practising it... Then u got a choice to make... To change your thinking and character or say "love me hate me"...

It depends on your self-analysis then... Do u think that u had a hard time in socialising? Do you feel that actually most of the ppl isnt very happy with ur character? Or you feel that why most ppl are doing good in tat thing but i suck? Its never any excuses and the problem is always YOU!

I know u cant satisfy everyone... and you can always say tat "love me hate me, tats my true self"... but wat if MOST of the ppl cant tolerate wat u are today? Isnt its time for u to evaluate urself and go into personal development?

The prob is many ppl resist change... and tat's why they still stuck at the old-intolerable-self... By saying "this is me" may cause more disadvantage... Sometimes u feel that its ntg wrong to behave so, but to build rapport, you still need to be accepted by others...

Dont see things so superficially... Mayb its ur problem not theirs... Be open mind and do more for personal development...

Food For Thought:
WikiHow: How To Change Yourself
WikiHow: How To Be Youself

4 comments:

jfook said...

I think we have to interpret other's perception on us before deciding to turn into a new leaf. Sometimes they might wrong. But when there are a number of people repeating the same statements regarding our personalities, that's the time we have to get into personal development. If not, I think there's no harm being ourselves. :)

SuFang~Sophia said...

An introspection is good sometimes but v have to think in other's perspective.
Not really need to b a sociable one but basic manners is a must and positive attitude is crucial in treating others.
After all, no one is perfect~ Im happy to be myself=) LOL..

XtasyM said...

Yeah... agree with both of u...

But i came across few ppl tat dont even behave well and have bad manners... keep saying "its himself" and resist to learn...

Sometimes the way we talk or act will giv ppl a very bad impression... and this is essential in socialising...

of course everyone is unique and not perfect... but there's always room for development... u wan it or not tat's a choice to make :)

2_Xiao 杰 said...

(nodding)...

those so called "b urself ppl" won't listen to these advice. They'll make their world d biggest, and centered themselves~

What to do~

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